sunday stories

Gift of love from a young girl I have a  letter box outside my room where anyone can drop letters . I open it personally , keep it confidential and take necessary action . This morning there was a pretty long letter from a twelve year old . She had written about her grandparents, about how I was her father's first teacher etc ( I have been at Rajendra for more than  three decades , and we have our Alumni  admitting their children at our school now !) . These lines touched my heart  " Mam, I come and stand outside your cabin many times. But you are always busy" . And today I called her to my room and she spoke nonstop about her family, about how she has saved 150rs to buy gift for her mother's birthday etc . She has recently lost her grandmother ( who used to tell her stories ) and was emotional when she shared her moments with her . And she expressed her wish to learn veena( my children's day surprise for them ) . This deep yearning to learn  moved me. And I ...

At 77 she is still reading , listening to audio books and sports her cheerful smile despite the many health challenges that daunt her. When  I visited her at her chennai home ( in dec 2024) she was wearing a self-designed maxie made from her soft cotton saree . And a pull over from her pure silk saree ( in pic) . I have always admired her ingenuity!  She is Meera athai , my mother-in-law's cousin sister .They grew up together ,  studied in municipal high school , Tiruchengode.  She was married at the age of seventeen. As he two sons started going to school, her husband late Dr.Ramanathan( he was the director at karur vysya bank ) noticed her passion for studying and supported her to complete her graduation. She went on to do her doctorate as well .  She worked as a professor in Loyola college teaching  American and European literature to students.  I fondly cherish the books she has gifted my son when he was young.  " Shakespeare for children" is ...

How can Simple Habits Can Transform Your Life? Read on... Have you ever watched a sunrise and felt its calmness settle over you? Or noticed how seasons arrive right on cue, year after year? Nature has a rhythm. A steady, grounding beat that keeps everything in sync. But somehow, in the rush of daily life, we often lose sight of our own rhythm. Our days become a blur of alarms, deadlines, and screens, and we forget that, deep down, we’re all connected to a natural cycle. This inner rhythm is called the circadian rhythm. It’s like an internal clock that helps our bodies know when to wake up, eat, and rest. By tuning into this rhythm, we can bring a little bit of nature’s balance into our lives. Here are a few gentle habits to get us started. Rise with the Morning Light There’s something deeply refreshing about waking up early, especially between 4:30 and 6:00 a.m., a time known as Brahmamuhurtham. It’s a peaceful window when the world is still quiet, and our minds are naturally sharper a...

This morning during our school assembly, I took a moment to appreciate the children who celebrated a Green Diwali by choosing not to burst firecrackers. I asked them how they used the money they would have spent on crackers, and their answers were wonderful. Some said they donated to old age homes, others saved it for future class trips, and a few bought plants and some even gifted it to others. Each response was thoughtful and heartfelt. To add to the conversation, I shared a little conversation between two boys, Ram and Shyam. Ram celebrated Green Diwali, avoiding crackers entirely, while Shyam argued that if people stopped buying crackers, it might harm the livelihoods of those small children who work in the firework industry. I asked the children, “If you were Ram, how would you respond to Shyam?” One of our 8-year-olds stepped forward and said, “If we don’t buy crackers, they don’t have to make them.” Such a simple, profound response! This child captured the essence of something w...

In the 1960s, those born during that era, now in their 70s and 80s, viewed development as more roads, buildings, and industries. Their focus was on tangible growth and infrastructure. However, with the onset of the 2000s and the undeniable impact of climate change, our understanding of development has shifted dramatically. Today, people in their 40s and 50s must redefine what development means. In the current context, development is intertwined with our responsibility to nurture a harmonious relationship with nature. We must instil this new definition in the younger generation, particularly Gen Z, who are now in their 20s and 30s. While the previous generation saw mountains as mere resources for minerals and forest produce, today's generation must learn to view forests as partners in a symbiotic relationship. At Agastya Academy, our mission is to plant the seeds of this coexistence in young minds. We believe that by doing so, we are equipping them with the necessary kno...

This  the time of the year where discussions about colleges and courses dominate conversations in most households . Majority of students seem drawn to AI-related courses. Reflecting on my own journey from 32 years ago,  I scored well in my 12th grade, and  I took computer science because it was the " in thing " at that time. I was part of the second batch of computer science engineering at PSG College of Technology. Yes, I followed the crowd and took the course. However, during my third year, an internship with Wipro made me realize that spending the rest of my life in front of computers wasn't my calling. I always enjoyed spending time with people. Thankfully, marriage redirected my path. Now, 32 years later, I wake up every morning looking forward to my work because my profession is my passion.  The core message from my experience is simple. When you find yourself, your strengths, and what you are naturally good at, you never get  tired of what you are doing...